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Stag/Cuckold Husband: "This Was Harder for Me Than It Was for Her"

Is the Hotwife lifestyle harder on the husband? My husband says yes. Reality is different from fantasy. The hard part for me is walking through the door. For him, pride, jealousy, compersion, possession, lust, fear, love and service all show up at once and fight for the wheel.

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Her husband: Now let me say something to the man reading this who is still on the fence. This was harder for me than it was for her. Reality is different from fantasy. Be ready. I know that is not what you want to hear. We tell ourselves the opposite.

Her husband: The hard part for her will be walking through that door. Everyone will be out of their comfort zone, but in my experience hers is the easier role. The Switch flips and she is gone into the moment. I was the one sitting there with every feeling I ever had about my wife stacked on top of each other at the same time. Pride. Jealousy. Compersion. Possession. Lust. Fear. Love. Service. They all show up at once and they all fight for the wheel. That is the work. And nobody warned me it was coming.

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Is the Hotwife lifestyle harder on the husband?

Is the Hotwife lifestyle harder on the husband? My husband says yes. Reality is different from fantasy. The hard part for me is walking through the door. For him, pride, jealousy, compersion, possession, lust, fear, love and service all show up at once and fight for the wheel.

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