Private
Talk to Us Privately
Some questions are too personal for a comment section. We get it. We had nobody to ask either.
You can send your question to both of us and get a personal answer, just for you. Or you can book a video call and talk it through with us face to face. It is our real experience from a real marriage, not professional advice.
Two ways to talk with us
Private voice answer
Send us your question. We answer it together in a private voice message, usually within 3 days.
$59
Inner Circle: your first one is free, then $29
30 minute video call
A real conversation about the lifestyle with both of us. Ask anything, take your time.
$149
Founding members: your welcome call is free. Members: $79
Inner Circle members get their first voice answer free, and Founding members get a free welcome video call with us. One per couple, one free one a month. Use the email you joined with and we check it for you. Not a member yet? The Inner Circle is where we talk with members every day.
Send your request
Good to know
Who answers?
Both of us. Happy and her Uncommon Husband, together since 1994 and married since 1999. Not a team, not an assistant.
Is this therapy or counseling?
No. We are not doctors, therapists or counselors. We share what has worked, and not worked, in our own marriage. If you are dealing with your health, your safety or a relationship in crisis, please talk to a professional.
Is the video call adult content?
No. It is a conversation about the lifestyle, the same honest talk you hear on the podcast, just with you. Everyone stays dressed, and we can end a call at any time.
When do I pay?
At checkout, through Stripe. If your request is not a fit for us, we refund you in full.
How do the free ones work for Inner Circle members?
Every membership couple gets one free voice answer. Founding members (our lifetime Keyholders) also get one free welcome video call with both of us. One free one a month, so if you use your voice answer this month, your call can be next month. Use the email you joined with and the site checks it. After that, members pay $29 for a voice answer and $79 for a call.
Is it private?
Yes. Your question is never shared. We only ever use a question publicly if you tell us we can, and then without your name.
Just curious and want a quick answer first? Ask Happy is free and answers any time. How we write and answer: our standards.