The Survey Project

The Real Hotwife Survey.

The internet is full of opinions about this lifestyle. Almost none of them come with data. We are fixing that.

Two anonymous surveys, one for couples living it and one for everyone still dreaming about it. Results publish free for the whole community, creators included.

What is the Real Hotwife Survey? The first independent, lived-experience survey of the Hotwife lifestyle: how couples actually start, the real rules, and the honest numbers behind size, sharing, chastity, and the husbands behind it all. Started by one real couple, married 27 years, 10 years in the lifestyle. Anonymous, no email required, results published free on this page.

Living it

For couples with real experience

How it started, how it really works, fantasy vs reality from both sides of the marriage, and the questions nobody has ever collected real answers to.

Take the couples’ survey

About 7 minutes · anonymous · every intimate question is skippable

Dreaming it

For everyone who carries the fantasy

What makes it hot, which flavor pulls hardest, what is standing between you and trying it, and what you wish existed in this space.

Take the fantasy survey

About 4 minutes · anonymous · no judgment

Anonymous. No email, no names.Independent. No platform owns this.Free results. Published here for everyone.

Why run this survey?

Because when we went looking for the truth about this lifestyle years ago, all we found was porn and guesswork. The only research that exists studies fantasies. Nobody ever asked the couples actually living it. These two surveys give the community its own numbers, from real people, published free.

Who sees my answers?

Nobody, individually. Answers are collected anonymously and only ever published as combined statistics. There is no email field, no name field, and no way for us to know who said what.

When do the results come out?

When enough couples have responded for the numbers to mean something. Results will publish on this page, free, and stay here permanently.

Want the results first?

Leave an email and the findings land in your inbox the day they publish. This is completely separate from the surveys: your email is never connected to any answers, and the surveys stay fully anonymous either way.