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I asked my husband straight out if my teasing really stings.
His honest answer, and why it's still part of the game we play.
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What's New at Happy Hotwife: the latest Hotwife and Stag/Cuckold podcast, videos and clips
By Happy Hotwife and her Uncommon husband · Together since 1994
Everything we put out, newest first. The podcast, our videos, short clips, quote cards and the articles, all in one place. Something new lands most days, so check back.
Married 27 years, together 32, Hotwife on purpose since 2016. This is the real version of the Hotwife and Stag/Cuckold life, from inside our marriage. Want it in your inbox? Join the Inner Circle.
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Our Stag and Cuckold life comes in seasons. Some are wild, some are quiet.
The marriage stays the same, only the version changes. Full episode Thursday.
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The yellow gold was the marriage we promised the world. The white gold is the marriage we promised each other.
We changed our rings on our 17th anniversary.
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Hotwife survey results: fantasy vs reality
We counted 90 people who have never tried it and 33 couples who have. 23 of 33 couples living it say it made their marriage stronger. Here is what the dreamers expect, side by side with what couples actually report.
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Is average enough?
A listener asked: my husband is average, should he worry? My answer is no. Do not measure your marriage that way. It was never about him being less. If anything, it made me feel closer to him.
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It started as a "no thank you" bite.
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My husband on being a Stag: the switch that happens when her shirt comes off.
And why the best part is that she goes home with him.
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Was it worth it? He answered.
Some of the most rewarding things aren't easy. The whole conversation is in the Inner Circle right now. Everyone else gets it Thursday.
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Size Matters, now animated (Episode 1)
Episode 1 of The Happy Hotwife Podcast, now with pictures. Same real conversation, same real voices. My husband and I answer whether size really matters in our Hotwife and Stag/Cuckold marriage.
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We have a safe word. Neither of us can remember it. 😂
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The men who carry this fantasy and have the courage to share it honestly are not the weak ones.
From my book, Chapter 4.
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My Favorite Part of Being a Hotwife
My favorite part of being a Hotwife is the confidence it brought me, and the freedom. I like to flirt, and I don't feel guilty for it. My husband has seen the confidence in me too.
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Scared to try the Hotwife lifestyle?
The husband and the wife are both nervous, for two different reasons. Here's what got us through the door the first time.
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Our One Hotwife Rule We Never Break: No Secrets
Our one Hotwife rule is no secrets. I will not cheat on him and I will not do anything dishonest behind his back. Whatever I do, he knows about it, or it is something we already discussed. You have to be honest.
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Hotwife Truth: You Don't Know What You Don't Know
You don't know what you don't know. My husband has seen me with other men and he can tell a difference. I didn't know what I didn't know, and neither did he, until fantasy became reality. It's different.
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Is Happy Hotwife a real couple?
Yes. We are a real married couple. We have been together since 1994, married since 1999, and living the Hotwife and Stag/Cuckold lifestyle on purpose since 2016. The photos marked Real us are us, and the whole story is in my book, Becoming Happy Hotwife.
What is Animated Me?
Animated Me is a cartoon version of me that reads the podcast and pieces of my book on video. My husband has one too. The voices are ours and the stories are ours. Only the picture is animated, so we can share more, more often, without a camera crew in our living room.
What do you post here?
Everything we make, newest first: episodes of The Happy Hotwife Podcast, our videos with full transcripts, short clips, quote cards from the book, memes, and articles about real Hotwife and Stag/Cuckold marriage. Something new lands most days.
Where do I start if I am new to the Hotwife lifestyle?
Start with the podcast and the beginner guide. If you want the whole honest story, read the book. Every piece here is written or recorded by the two of us, from inside a 27 year marriage, not from a fantasy.
Go deeper: the podcast, videos with transcripts, the beginner guide and the book.