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5 Conversations Before You Open Up

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People ask me for a script. How did you ask? How did you answer? There was never one conversation. By the time my husband and I talked about doing it for real, we had been having the conversation for over twenty years.

So I put the five talks that built our marriage into one short guide, straight from our book, with questions to ask each other. It is free.

  1. The one in the dark. Where this kind of honesty actually starts, and the one sentence to say the next morning.
  2. The one where he tells her. Why delivery matters more than the message, and what to do if he already told you.
  3. The one about your rules. The only rules that matter are the ones the two of you make. Make them first.
  4. The one about jealousy. Reality is different from fantasy. How to plan the morning after before there is one.
  5. The one about pausing. Either of you can slow it down or stop. That is what makes the rest safe.

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5 Conversations Before You Open Up

The talks that built our marriage, long before anything ever happened. The one in the dark, the one where he tells her, your rules, jealousy, and how to pause. Straight from our book, with questions to ask each other. Tell me where to send it.

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Want the whole conversation, walked step by step? The Conversation Guide for Him and the Conversation Guide for Her go deeper. Our whole story is in the book.